How many dates should a guy call it quits if a women never offers to pay for a date or even a tip? I always say that what you see up front is what you may get in the long run. If the woman never even asks than that shows who they are. If you have been in 3 to 4 dates than it is a good sign of things to come. They obviously feel that it is your responsibility to pay every time. In this day and time this train of thought is out dated. Am I saying that most men will let her pay? Maybe or maybe not. The point is that the woman should at least offer. It is not about being cheap. A man wants to feel as if he counts also. He wants to feel as if the woman at least is not taking advantage of him. It is a fact that first impressions count. I have dates many women and it typically rings true what train of thought a woman has asking to pay versus never asking. Most relationships I have started with was from a women who had asked if she could get the next date or if she could at least get the tip. It is such a great feeling! It shows the overall kindness of the woman. This is the type of woman that I would do anything for because she actually seems to be able to have my best interest at heart. Those who feel entitled and think that is just the way it should be are not the ones for me. People that have certain beliefs are not necessarily bad people. It could be that is the way they were raised or other reasons. Some men like it this way. Different strokes for different folks. A sharing person is the best fit for me.
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